Ok, here's an example that I can recall from a few weeks ago. I was talking with a co-worker, who just happens to be white, about the fact that his kid wants a brand new Iphone 6S, for Christmas, essentially went something like this:
Co-worker: So, Ethan says he wants Santa to bring him one of those new Iphones for Christmas, says there's a gold one out there that he wants.
Me: Seriously? Your son is only 8 years old, why in the hell does he need an Iphone?
Co-worker: Yeah, I hear ya, my wife is really wanting to get it for him, but I dunno, kinda pricey. Maybe I'll get him another, cheaper, phone and he'll be happy anyway.
Me: Ha! You know that's a bunch of bull-jive, kids these days have to have the "coolest" crap that comes around.
Completely innocuous statement, no one did a double-take, no one gasped, we both just chuckled and went about our days.