Well you mentioned three players. Temas with divas seldom win super bowls. The three you mentioned don't respect him enough. You can add other minor players. S Thomas, C Rainey , and Alameda Ta'amu come to mind. Heck Tomlin himself has been disciplined by the NFL Twice, once for wandering on the field, which looked like he knew what he was doing, and again for mouthing off to the officials. In my opinion, this put a target on the Steelers, refs are human. Tell them they suck, and some may hold a grudge or look for a call at a later date
Tomlin was dim witted enough to have separate rules for players on the same team. Some could play locker room games, other could not.
Cowher dealt with guys like Greg Lloyd, quite possibly the most violent and intimidating guy the Steelers had during his tenure. Outside of Eric Green who was out in 1994, after making the pro bowl in 1993 and 1993, I cant; recall Cowher have problems with his guys.
But since I got your attention, why doesn't Tomlin talk to Ben?
Where is the sideline coaching? The play charts?
How come every time the camera pans down on him ( usually at a key point in a game ) his mouth is not moving?
Terry Bradshaw thinks he's a cheer leader type. The OC and DC call the plays. I'm really not sure what Tomlin's value on game day is. He's prone make bad decisions on 3rd and 4th down, and deciding when to throw the red flag. Its his call in the end, he can see the stadium video board as well as anyone. Time management a weakness sin the past has not been a big problem this year, but situational football, and making changes that at needed remains an issues as does penalties. Teams with lots of penalties are a reflection upon the head coach, Ike. Why do the Steelers have so many of them?
Tomlin to me is best dealing with the media and staying out of the way on game day. Off the field, I think he's a fine guy to have a beer with.