So let me try and get your logic straight:
Even though the D wasn't stopping the Seahawks, you still have no problem with kicking a field goal from the 3 yard line, giving the ball back to them, and still being behind in the game with three minutes left on the clock? When another Seattle touchdown puts the game completely out of reach?
You've got it. Your logic seems to be based around the idea that the TD was somehow guaranteed --- it's the old "I'd rather be winning than losing" approach which doesn't account for the fact that actually scoring the TD is probably a 50-55% probability at best whereas the 3 points is a 99.7% probability.
And the fact that a Seattle TD puts the game out of reach is neither here nor there...that applies to EVERY scenario. And as I've said, having a 1 or 3 point lead means Seattle has 4 downs to move into FG position to tie or win the game.
The fact is that Tomlin's decision put us in a terrific position to win the game ---- we needed to make one stop on 3rd and long and we would have been in great position for the win. Except we couldn't stop Seattle's offense on 3rd and long which would apply to every scenario. The blame on Tomlin is our complete lack of talent at the CB position as well as the stupid fake FG decision.