If SD is becoming too much, maybe head south to Rosarito. Haven't been there in over 20 years, but loved the beach. Used to camp right on the beach in Puerto Penasco (Rocky Point), but those days are long gone.
Agree, there's something about the carefree life on the beach. I need to get back to that someday.
Not sure if you're a golfer Zona (or used to be), but I'd go down that way to Bajamar and Real Del Mar and golf next to the ocean for 60 bucks. It's probably a little more expensive nowadays but Pebble Beach can have their $595 fee to play one damn round of golf. And yeah, beautiful down there next to the ocean but Mexico scares me. My co-worker is originally from Puerto Vallarta and he said their 10 acre farm was also a graveyard courtesy of the cartel. No bullshit.