If you think that there are not different set of rules for elite players on EVERY team in the NFL, I have some ocean front property in Iowa to sell you. There will always be different rules for your truly elite players than what may exist for your third string OT or practice squad player. People will always be treated different based on value, seniority, trust...etc. in pretty much any industry.
Every team? I can't hardly imagine that the team we like to use a * to describe and that has a head coach that's name starts with a B would ever pamper player that can't control themselves. They would be out the door so fast it would fly off the hinges.